But an important one has been how soft/firm our mattress should be. He likes a very firm mattress....like sleeping on boards topped with a sheet. Not this kid....I want to feel like I'm in the middle of a cloud bank, or snuggled into a huge wad of cotton balls.
Here's the important thing...........I have realized that sleeping on a VERY soft mattress, and using amazing cotton sheets of very high thread count helps reduce my morning fibro stiffness and pain.
We recently went on a short trip, and the hotel had just such a bed, with the huge pillowtop, and fabulous sheets, and ginormous, soft pillows. I just sunk into that bed at night, and for naps, and woke up pain-free and feeling great each time!!!
So I immediately came home and put a feather mattress topper on our bed and added some amazing sheets. I already had my "special pillow", and now I am sleeping better, and waking much less stiff and sore. And Dijon happily sacrificed his love of a firm bed so that I can feel better....thank you, hon!
Moral of the Day: Don't ignore the bed.....we spend lots of our life there. Get whatever you need to make yourself comfortable when you sleep....extra pillows, better quality sheets, soft covers, feather quilts, etc. A good night's sleep is CRITICAL for fibromites to feel and function well. This has made a huge difference to me :)
See ya soon,
~~~~~Sally~~~~~
I really agree about the bed - my daughter has a really soft bed that you just sink into. Not sure what to put on top to get that feeling!?!
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